Cut the pork shoulder into two inch pieces. In a pot on medium high heat, add 2 tb oil and sear the pork about 3-5 minutes on each side. Set the pork aside in a bowl and add two tb sugar and caramelize the sugar.
Mix oyster sauce, soy sauce, fish sauce, water, garlic and bay leaves and carefully add to the pot to deglaze. Add pork back in, bring to a boil then simmer with the lid on for 1 ½ hours.
While the pork is braising, prepare the pickled vegetables. In a bowl, mix daikon, carrot, sugar, vinegar and water and set aside. Repeat for pickled onions.
Remove the lid and let the sauce reduce on medium low heat for 30 minutes. Prepare the rice, fried egg, cucumber, scallions and cilantro. Drain and squeeze the pickling juice from carrots and onions.
To serve, assemble bowls with rice, pork and vegetables. Skim off the fat and drizzle extra sauce on the pork and rice. Happy nomming!
Notes
I usually make this in the Instant Pot on high for 30 minutes. If you make it in the Instant Pot, use one cup of water instead of two.